You may be wondering what qualifies me to write a blog like this... well, first, I'm 58 years old and never been married.  Second, I have no kids and lastly I have two cats.

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After many years of, well we'll call it self reflection, I have come to terms with the fact that I may never marry.  I accept my fate willingly.  The 'clock' never ticked... I didn't hit snooze on marriage vice career.  It just didn't happen...

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So, why did I for many years think there was something wrong with me? I'll tell you... society.

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Society dictates what is 'normal' and what isn't... because I never married it was assumed that I was not interested in men... well, I can 100% tell you that I am... so let all the wagging tongues stop. I just chose not to settle. That's it. I refuse to settle.